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Anger is Destructive

 T here is an old, old proverb that says, “He is a fool who cannot be angry; but he is a wise man who will not.” Anger is the most useless, destructive emotion of all. It consumes our energy, controls our mind and destroys our relationships. We have trouble concentrating on anything else when we are angry. It steals our happiness, it threatens our health, it blurs our judgment - anger can consume us. When you allow someone’s words or actions to make you angry you have given them control of your mind. Being angry at someone else means they are pulling your strings, you are simply reacting to their tugs, they have become the puppet master and you have become the puppet. Resolve not to give in to feelings of anger, make it your goal to remain positive, to remain in control. You cannot control the actions of others but you can control your reaction. In truth other people can’t “make” you angry; only you can do that by allowing others to have that power over you. Don’t let anyone have t...

Live with Passion

Have you ever walked into a room where you didn’t know anyone, but were immediately drawn to someone who was in a conversation with others?  He or she may have been gesturing with their hands, or smiling broadly, their eyes were twinkling and clearly they were engaged in the conversation.  Suddenly you wanted to be a part of that group, listening to that fascinating person.  Why?  Because their passion for life was infectious. People who live with passion are interesting.  They often see the humorous side of things, they believe in what they are doing, and they make others believe.  Passionate people have charisma and we just naturally gravitate to them.  People can be quiet and retiring, and yet still be passionate about their beliefs.  These are the folks that you need to get to know a little better before you discover what great people they are.  Again, you’ll be drawn by their enthusiasm for life, and for their strongly held views.  ...