Listening Well Sends a Message
Good listening skills will Improve your relationships with everyone, your family, your co-workers, your employer, and the people you speak with on the phone. Someone once said, “If you are all wrapped up in yourself, you make a very small package.” How true that is! Big-hearted people care about others. When you learn to be truly and unselfishly interested in people, our friends will know you are really listening and that you care about them as much as you care about yourself. When you are interested in the triumphs and defeats, the happiness and heartaches of those around you, you build trust. Listen to their experiences and value their opinions. Your genuine interest will draw them out and bring you a wealth of valuable understanding. When you learn to focus on what a person is saying, you become a much more interesting person – because you understand and can reply appropriately. If you catch yourself thinking about your reply...